"Don't you think our lives would run more smoothly if one if us, in this marriage, were organized and on top of things?", I snapped at my husband, as I frantically searched through yet another large pile of paperwork.
(Snapped, because, clearly, this was all his fault.)
"Um, yeah", he replied, in a "Duh!" tone of voice. "I think that every. single. day."
Organized or no, there is a plan. It's not an elaborate plan, to be certain, but simple plans seem to work best for us. And this is our plan:
Today we are here:
Tomorrow, we'll be here:
We never did find our plane reservation or flight confirmation numbers. Lucky for us, all one has to do to track these things down, apparently, is to call the airline, give them your name, and they will tell you your flight times and flight numbers. (Just don't try to bring more than 3oz. of liquid onto the plane...)
We have no set itinerary or firm plans or even hotel reservations. We have a car reserved* and that's the extent of it. We're pretending we're still nineteen years old and we're going footloose and fancy-free. Footloose and fancy-free, after creating a 20-page "Everything You Ever Wanted To Know About Our Kids And More" manifesto, complete with mile-by-mile directions to the nearest hospital, for my parents, who are going to be staying with The Three while we are gone.
Ten days.
No kids.
I really, really want to be dancing on the rooftops in excitement. Instead, I'm sick with worry and fear. Bill and I haven't gone away together before. In the seven years we've been parents we've taken separate vacations or gone away as a family. But just the two of us? Not even a weekend away.
Ten days.
I'm already lonely.
But just might dance on some rooftops anyway.
Slainte!
* Note to self: Ask Bill if he's checked on the car reservation. Might want to check on that car reservation.
Thursday, October 04, 2007
Slainte!
Posted by Jennifer at 10:50 AM
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23 comments:
Oh! How marvelous...I hope you have an incredible, incredible time--you deserve it!
I won't tell you not to worry, because I know you will, but try and dive into that footloose free vacation as best you can!
CONGRATULATIONS AND HAVE FUN!!!
I am so excited for you and cannot wait to hear all about it!!!!
Have a WONDERFUL trip! (Clearly there is something about your plans that strikes a "must use exclamation points" nerve in all of us...)
If you get bored with Ireland (ha!), hop a ferry and come see me! :)
Oh, I recall the "separate planes" post that was a while back, and here you are, ready to leave!! Your kids are a phone call away, I'm sure they will be fine, you may worry at times, but you should definitely enjoy yourselves, stay up late, drink to much, be fancy-free!! ;) I hope (no I KNOW) you will have a fantastic time. Miss your kids, but give them some great stories when you get back... and look forward to going back to them in 10 days and giving them all BIG hugs!
Safe Trip to you! Can't wait to hear about it!
Ooooh! Have a marvelous time!!
The kids will probably have so much fun with your parents that they will hardly know you're gone... (at least this was the case with mine, when we went on our first kid-free vacation this summer) :) Enjoy!!
Dun do bheal! (Shut your mouth!) I'm still pouting that I'm not going with you (pog mo thoin!)
I know EXACTLY how you feel...remember the "Things to Do While We're Gone" book hubby and I left for my mom when we went to St. John sans kids? (Including the always fun "Who to Contact to Sell Our House if we Die" chapter.)
They. Never. Opened. It.
I'm so jealous of your trip. But not of your stress. BTDT. Maybe a girl's trip next? Minus the hubsters who can't keep track of reservations?! LOL!
Eirinn go Brach!
Have fun Jen! I can imagine how you must feel leaving the kids. We've left ours for the weekend before, but never for longer than that. I wouldn't hesitate to leave B. and A. for a week or more now, but we've locked ourselves into several more years of no-kid-free-vacations with the birth of E. Oh well. Maybe we should start saving now for a big get-away in a few years.
I'll be thinking of you next week! Have a delightful trip.
Stephanie
WOOO HOOOO!!!!!!! You are going to have such a blast! And *WOW* at the footloose way you've planned your trip (or not planned!) That's going to make it such an adventure!
DH and I haven't done more than let the kids spend the night at Grandma's house in 7 years either - so I know your heart must be in your throat. But remember, they raised you and you made it to adulthood happy and healthy. ;) There's no better babysitters than your parents and you will make all sorts of wonderful memories!
Then, in another 7 years, you can take "the three" with you. ;)
Bon Voyage! (or, um, say that in Gaelic...)
Bring on the exclamation points -- reading all of this excitement is helping me to get really excited. Thanks, friends! My husband has been a bit grouchy about the fact that I've been more in worry mode than "Woohoo!" mode. So, he'll appreciated that I am appreciating the exclamation points. !!! Ha.
But, dammit, I forgot the Who To Contact To Selll Our House..." chapter of my book. Of course, considering that equity in the house is paying for this trip, they might just want to cut and run. ;)
Enjoy!!!!!!
You are going to have a BLAST!
I am so jealous, er, happy for you!
Enjoy!! I'm sure you'll get into woohoo mood at the airport, if not sooner. Sounds like a blast!!
Oh, have a great time! I know from our trip to Rome last year that I couldn't even get excited about the vacation because of all the worrying. But my kids were fine, and yours will be too. Can't wait to hear about the trip!
Wow, wow, wow! I hope you guys have the best! trip! EVER!
Slainte! You be having a bloody good time on the Emerald Isle, Lass, and I can't wait to hear all your tales when you return!!
oh dude--enjoy!!!!!!! i can't tell you how jealous i am. i get the worry though. but it will all be ok. really.
oh, you ROCK IT girl...10 delicious days and you'll come home a better mama.
we never make reservations either, so i love that about you.
have an amazing time.
hi jen. i don't know if you'll get time to read this... or if you'll even remember me (from a comment or two a while ago) BUT... i just *had* to say: have a wonderful time! i live in Dublin and i think you're doing exactly the right thing in leaving the accommodation and planning to fate... that's the *perfect* way to "do Ireland". There are B&Bs everywhere and the weather is so changeable, you're better off not being tied down to one spot. if you fancy more suggestions, would like to meet a local or need anything at all, look me up (vrobinson @ iol. ie). I long for the day when J and I can leave our 3 and flit off somewhere new alone again (though I just know I'll be in a frightened mess the night before too). As my blog subtitle says: "Go n-éirí an bothar leat"= May the road rise with you. And good luck driving on the other side of the road!!!
Vx
Have a WONDERFUL time!!!!! I'd have sent you my Ireland book if I'd known you would be going there! It's my dream vacation! Post lots of pictures when you return!!!
How fun!!! And fancy free I might add. Everytime we go away I miss the kids. You will too. It's a good thing though.
LC
The "Alternative Whiskey Academy?!" Oh, I SOOOO have to show my husband that.
Have a great WELL-DESERVED romantic time in beautiful Ireland! Can't believe your trip is here already ; ). Can't wait to hear about your stories when you return (you DO have to do that, you know....)
Enjoy!
Have a ball mama, I can't wait to hear details when you return!
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